Wednesday, April 23, 2008

We Need To Talk


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Wednesday, yey! Dalam banyak2 hari dalam seminggu, ari Rabu adalah antara hari yang dinantikan. Selain daripada harga tiket wayang yang akan jadi murah pada ari ni, but sumhow ari Rabu nih akan memberikan satu permulaan yang baik kepada diri.

Being TV-addict, seawal bangun pagi dah mula menonton. But off course la, takdelah bantai tgk kartun ke ape. Wajib tonton, berita pagi2 kol 7 am then MHI bermula kol 7.15 am.(Yea, the show starts earlier but i will only watch it starting from 7.15 am). Sooner or later, u guys will get used to my routine and stuff I do's and don't.

There's a alot for Dato Hj Fazillah Kamsah aired every Wednesday. Tu la sebab utama kenapa ari Rabu ditunggu2. So this morning they were having a discussion on "Komunikasi Berkesan Dalam Hubungan". Seriously, people we have to talk to our partner. Bukan la the kind of sweet talker "I love u", " I chenta mati ngan u" and stuff but more to understanding of ur partner's need. Memang betul, kata2 cinta, sayang, pujian nih diperlukan tapi that is not the issue .

It's not a healthy relation without a good communication. From time to time, u'll learn how to translate ur partner (or people around you) punya body languange. Walau hati kata benci, tapi mata kuyu sayu. Those kinda things la. Komunikasi akan jadi lebih berkesan bila adanya permerhatian, percakapan dan penterjemahan. Tu dea X factor dah kuar da. Ketiga2 faktor nih mesti saling beriring.Yelah, setakat perhati tp tak bercakap pon takleh gak. Kalau bercakap main sedap mulut ngan ayat bisa tanpa menerangkan maksud sebenar pon tk bole la juga. Maka sebaiknya, luahkan semua. Memang adat org kita, cakap menda nk berlapik aja. Tapi, sampai bila nk melapik2 kalau esok lusa kena tempik?

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