:: S.Y.B.M ::

I always believe that not everyone is born to be a star. For that, i am blessed to be one. The bright ones. As a star, you have to deal with fame. And off course, fame could cost you so much. Much more than what you can imagine. Trust me, this will never be easy for some. Again, thank you God for giving me the courage to walk my journey.

Being famous, you either be popular/likable by most people or end up being hated by those 'kepochi'. These refers to the sick, shallow minded, busy body and 'busuk hati' type of people. They love to dedicate their time just to pick and dig whatever they can find to get rid of you. Funny. They hate you but they love to tail your move, just like a dog. Exactly like a dog. Thou they are men best friends, they still tend to bite you once a while. That's what 'kepochi' does best.

Bare in mind, famous is to be earn not asked. Same goes to respect. That would best explain why the existence of some people are not being recognized by others. Simple - its not in their blood. No matter how hard they tried, be prepared for numbers of failures. Most end up waving the 'bendera putih'.

I cant stop you from being a green-eyed monster and envy me for the rest of your life. I am happy with my life and nothing can pull me down. Not when you make a stupid remarks over my picture or 'sok-sek-sok-sek' about why i am still single and not married. Also, not when you sarcastically smile and pretend to care for me.  Those just to proof how important i am in your life that you cant get through one day not having my name mentioned. Sorry, i can't be equal to you. 

My fame is to be shared among the good people who loves to have my presence around them. For those 'hidung tak mancung, pipi tersorong-sorong', eat your heart out. As the title says 'Shut Your Bloody Mouth' and please keep your distance. I don't need a dog.

 

:: Woman I Envy ::

Latest addition to the list. Period.

Presenting Ybhg. Datuk Bridget Anne Lai, Group Chief Executive Officer of Alliance Bank Malaysia Berhad.

It's all started as early as July when I first emailed her office to invite her good self for our mothly session with industry prominent leader. Numbers of correspondences - writing, phone calls need to done to convince her team that she should be present.

Those powerful women in Malaysia financial industry

It did not take too long for her office to reply me with a great news. I was so excited to the fact that I'll be meeting one of the Top 50 Women to Watch 2009 named by Financial Times. Yes, it is the exact feeling i have during meeting up Ms. Yvonne Chia, Group MD of Hong Leong Bank Berhad. Worries, excited, eager - all in one.

She agreed to speak on the topic suggested 'Women In Banking' - something that we believe is close to her heart. After hearing her speech, I can't help myself to envy her confidence and resilience towards her passion in banking. She is super-woman, one of a kind of course.

Abah with Datuk

Her speech does aspire all of us on how a woman shouldnt just give up to pursue their dreams to be somebody in any field that they wanted to. Never stop learning. As for those who's only goal is to get married, she has something to ponder "Beauty fade and we all will be ugly one day, for sure. Whats left is your mind which to be used to stimulates your partner. Be bright enough to use them".

Abah snapped this. Not bad!

We manage to have a chit chat with someone who sees her daily - the driver of course! She loves shopping - ehem, she's wearing LV from top to toe, kind hearted and loves her mother much. Last but not least, she ends the session with a recipe. Yes, u read it right. Her recipe of success :

Know more than others, Work smart than others and Expect less than others. I Loike!